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How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving

How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving (New)

by Richo, David

Publisher: Shambhala Publications

Binding: Paperback

Book ID: 9781570628122, 1570628122


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"Most people think of love as a feeling," says David Richo, "but love is not so much a feeling as a way of being present." In this book, Richo offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships-one that focuses not on finding an ideal mate, but on becoming a more loving and realistic person. Drawing on the Buddhist concept of mindfulness, How to Be an Adult in Relationships explores five hallmarks of mindful loving and how they play a key role in our relationships throughout life:

  • Attention to the present moment; observing, listening, and noticing all the feelings at play in our relationships.
  • Acceptance of ourselves and others just as we are.
  • Appreciation of all our gifts, our limits, our longings, and our poignant human predicament.
  • Affection shown through holding and touching in respectful ways.
  • Allowing life and love to be just as they are, with all their ecstasy and ache, without trying to take control.

When deeply understood and applied, these five simple concepts -- what Richo calls the five A's -- form the basis of mature love. They help us to move away from judgment, fear, and blame to a position of openness, compassion, and realism about life and relationships. By giving and receiving these five A's, relationships become deeper and more meaningful, and they become a ground for personal transformation.

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